This resonates with me - as things went downhill with SO, everything else went up. I also reconnected with kids, advanced in my career, got a $15k raise, friends reached out to me, girls flirted with me.
This should tell you something, my friend. You are doing exactly what you need to be doing; even if W is completely unaware of her own ridiculous behavior. I'm sorry, but when everything in your life is going right, and the only thing "wrong" is the WAS, then guess where the "wrong" is?
You should be proud of you! Why are you reducing your success based on who looks at it?