Sandi, I think you have nailed a problem that many men have (maybe women?). I'll chime in that I too have been treated very badly - like in ways I would NEVER treat anyone - but I definitely still love her and want to correct things.

Maybe there's some Still-Love-Her-Even-Though-She-Treats-Me-Like-Crap Syndrome; to go along with WAS!

I guess SLHETSTMLC syndrome doesn't have the same ring:) (sorry trying to find some humor)


“You only lose what you cling to.” – Buddha