thanks for all the responses. It has just been upsetting that my W could let someone intervene in our relationship, just no dignity. This is all from a girl that had a ton of that. I have already pretty much prepared myself to think she has had a PA, and I know it has been emotional. Anytime you cannot quit a relationship with someone of the opposite sex I consider it an affair. Not talking about family or long term friends, i refer to people you just met.
