Oh and do not be upset about the rub one out stuff.... or focused on the person texting... this is all your W's doing....your W opens the door for people to talk this way to her...this is not about the other person... only about your W and your R.
H (me) 52, W 42 M 15 D14, S12 PA June and Sept 2016 Found out Sept, confronted Oct NC with OM since Oct, remorseful Dating since Nov