Has she ever told you what she needed from you to feel loved?
Do you know if your W has her profile on any type of these sites, or has communicated with some of the members?
Do you have couple friends? Do you attend church, belong to an organization, attend sporting events, art shows, school or community functions, concerts........anything for fun? I know you said you do everything together, but do you include others and interact with other families? Do your kids play with other children regularly? What type of work do you do?
Thanks again for the help. In answer to your questions.
She has never told me what she needs to be loved. But, she seems to need/respond to regular, frequent compliments and reassurances.
She does not have any dating site profiles and has not used any of these sites. Other than my one time look, I have not either. I don't have any site accounts.
We are not disconnected from others. we just do everything together. We have couples that we spend time with and mutual friends that go back years. Our children play with the neighborhood kids and we interact with their parents. Judo club provides some camaraderie to my son and I.
I am an IT professional and I am fortunate to have a very predictable schedule and lots of vacation days.