I'm so sorry to read this Esame ((((((((big hugs))))))))

In my sitch, it took XH many months to file after he told me he was going to file - from memory, over six months to me actually getting papers.

So, I would say to get your own L lined up and ready to go if needed and then sit back and let your H do all the work if that's what he wants.

Does it work for you that he still comes to the house and spends time with the kids my lovely??

That is always something you can change if you want to...

Take care, and if you have told him D isn't what you want already - step back and leave him to it.
Xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus