Originally Posted By: bsb

I think I have done ok with my limited responses back to her and I haven't reached out first since I saw her a week ago. It just doesn't seem to phase her at all and might even be helping her move on...


I wasn't talking about your responses. I was talking about the fact that you seem to be doing this to get a reaction from her (attachment), instead of doing it to give yourself some space without her (detachment).

It's all good. Be well.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15