I'm sorry to hear about the fight you had. I hope you are safe and ok. Please look after yourself, and if the violence turns towards you leave or call the police.
You are worth so much more than that Twinmom. If your H wants to spend some time with his family, then he can go and see them on his own. You have the right to feel safe and respected. Maybe incline to your H that his family will no longer be welcome in your house if they don't show you any respect.
