I am very sorry to read this news. Please see a lawyer as soon as possible so that you will know what your legal rights are. Don't believe anything he tells you, i.e., promising this or that, because it will change once the process begins.
Please take care of yourself and hugs to you and the children.
Thanks Job. I'm feeling ok (surprisingly), I think my number one worry is how the kids will be affected, and if we can minimise the damage I can live with that. I'm not saying that I'm not grieving for myself, for the loss of a husband, my dreams for the future etc. But in my eyes my husband left me in February. A piece of paper cannot change that.
"There's nothing sadder than a conman conning himself"
“There is freedom waiting for you, On the breezes of the sky, And you ask "What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, What if you fly?”