Well my WS reached to a good friend yesterday to have breakfast with him. This is the same person she told the therapist that she wanted to reconnect with in our last session. They are both accountants/finance people, so they've always had a good relationship and trust. He and his wife are our best friends and WS told the therapist that she was hoping to reconnect with him, as he is a very good friend. When pressed about what she wanted from this conversation, she said to reconnect and if we were to get back together, she saw this friend as a key support person in the rest of our friends accepting WS back,
So part of me is encouraged by this as WS is following through on her commitment to therapist and seems to be showing some signs of acceptance. We will see how the breakfast goes, as WS and I are on NC for the month of December.
Any thoughts?
M52 W52 M17 T20 SS 23 from my 1st M Lives on his own BD 10/01/16 Trial Sep 12/01/16