where to begin or end? #2

[j20a00g]

Time CAN be your friend. Or your worst enemy. Depends on how you use it.
You said you are "reflecting" right now. No point really at this point. The last is the past. Can't change it. I guess I'm a bit different when it comes to "stuff". I basically let her take whatever she wanted. Let her look at it and think of the memories linked to the item. Better her than me. Intact, I have all the Christmas stuff from the last 18 years in tubs. Only stuff I'm keeping is the stuff my mom gave me that I made as a kid and a few of the things the girls made us over the years. Everything else is going to her, first house, engagement, first Christmas ornaments, etc....everything! She wants to throw it, oh well. That part of my life is over. No need for me to sit there with a bottle of whiskey and stare at the tree of memories of a life that once was.

Point is, do you REALLY care if she takes a couch or a lamp? Let go and let live!