hey there akgal - you sound great you are giving up smoking and dbing at the same time - wow
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Do you think that db'ers sometimes grow OUT of their marriages after changing themselves so much?

snap. i was thinking the same last weekend when my wonderful H was telling me cool as can be that he expects to continue 'being in contact with' OW i think i'm feeling good mostly because i am becoming more aware that i will be ok, whatever happens to R.

but hey, you are doing so well, all those positives. have a great time with H. lots of love, slowly

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