Sandi- Thanks again for putting so much into a reply. To start, ww has claimed that things have ended with om and I haven't found evidence that this is not true. You mentioned that many ww's just take things deeper underground. She doesn't show true remorse and didn't agree to explore the possibility of having a romantic relationship with me in counseling with the last mc. She ultimately said she didn't want a d either. That's what's troubling me. What I was asking was if I need to or should separate because we are living in limbo.
- m and ww in 30s - s4 - m 11 yrs, t12 -ilybinilwy ~5/16 + request for OM - bd 7/16, confirm ea and strongly suspected pa - 9/16 ww claimed to have broken contact with om
