401k has a loan against it for several more years. But honestly nobody can predict how the legal stuff will play out, so for the most part im not fretting over longterm "divorce" issues, thats what the lawyers are for in my eyes. I fret more about my current dilemmas, her taking stuff, kids being with om, etc. Which im stuck because i have no way to enforce anything without me taking legal action, and that may even be futile. On that note, i have not really done anything with the bulk of our possessions because i figure thats a legal matter, so everything within my house sits in limbo, unless she decides to relieve me of whatever item of the day may be.
BH:30 WW:30 T:12 M:5 D7 S4 BD 7-28-16 S 8-28-16 3-15-17 wife filed 3-17-17 OM joint files with his wife
