MLC H at age 32, maybe single mum with a toddler S

[Maybe]

Thanks V. I appreciate your advise. It's very easy to understand, but hard to follow. I stopped being upset last night about H's comment about how the house is filthy. But today, I found myself being very fed up by my son throwing food and tipping milk all over the carpet. I said to myself I am doing great, I am the mum, the maid, the dad, and the provider (H pays the mortgage but bills have became my responsibility). I can't be perfect, so there will be crumbs on the table, stains on the floor, toys everywhere. Yet, it really did get to me today as son was crying every half an hour (teething) and I could not get anything done. I think he's trying to get my attention as well because after the first few crys, I stopped responding coz I got too upset. Story of being a single mum. And there is really nothing I can do but grow stronger and wiser...