The calls stopped and I have kept busy. Went over to the neighbors to help hang a tv. Ended up telling them what's going on. Up till the last couple days I've kept everything quiet. It's amazing how sometimes talking helps. I don kind of regret no answering now but her stopping tells me it wasn't that important. I don't think I will call back at this point but if she calls again I might answer. I'm mentally exhausted and hope to see some of my buddies tomorrow night.