G I think ur right. I actually feel stronger everyday. I'm almost back to how I was. I am just a bit wiser. I think that the things I used to push back on I don't anymore. The little things don't really matter anymore? So I'm adjusting.
It really boils down to fear..fear of losing my job my home blah blah blah. And we will settle in one place soon. She wants that also.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”