We get it, you are not doing the work for her. So why do you continue harping on not being the one to file? If you don't want to, then don't be pressured into doing it.

Really good job about presenting yourself looking much better, and the other things you've done. Hope you will continue to build GAL.

I am so sorry about the situation with your kids and OM. I hate it and what it does to families. My GC went through the very same thing.

((hugs))

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!