I forgot about the cake incident. I would not waste my breath on them other than being cordial when you see them. No need to partake in trying to start a conversation. They are in their own sad little world.
Just enjoy and nuture your R with your H and his father.
Hope your weekend is going great. Tomorrow is day 45 isn't it? Yeah for you!
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
