I have cut the length of my answers as you have suggested already. It seems kind of rude to me, but I have done it anyway.
My SIL is like my baby sister as I have known her for 25 years and in many ways we are closer than she is to my W. I have simply explained that the W really is in a confused state and that she is making decisions for herself right now. I also said that there is nothing she nor myself could do to change that.
Again, I guess I realize that I have lost my best friend due to this crazy chit and have to re-eval who I will have as my confidant from here. She has separated herself from that role.
I am accepting this more and more on a daily basis...it's hard, but I have to do it. Thanks for the input.
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!
