My W has neither moved away or towards me in over two years. She is done without being done. She is still here without being still here. Don't counton her not pulling further away as a sign that she isn't done. It just means she isn't ACTING on what she wants. Until she does you have time. Use it wisely. Listen to the advice being given.
Best wishes
That is scary. I will get my courage up for the long haul. I hope your wife moves toward you again.
