pretty sure. she still makes zero effort to be apart from me and she could any time she wanted to. i'm not blocking that.

My W has neither moved away or towards me in over two years. She is done without being done. She is still here without being still here. Don't counton her not pulling further away as a sign that she isn't done. It just means she isn't ACTING on what she wants. Until she does you have time. Use it wisely.
Listen to the advice being given.

Best wishes

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together