So, they are being plain rude. I sent cake over to them and they sent it back to me. No explanation. Just sent it back.
After the incident in town, where MIL and BIL ignored me, I know where I stand with them. I will not put myself in harm's way. Will be civil if they come to my home, but will not go to their home and will not go out of my way to do anything nice for them. I will keep them in my prayers, but they will have to make the first move toward me reconciling with them. I have no reason to try at this point. They have shown me how they feel.
FIL has been different. He has been civil and has come over to the house. He has an excuse for MIL each time he is here. So, whatever.
H is ignoring whole situation. Like if he sticks his head in the sand, it will go away.
I am not going to let them hurt me. I will take care of me. I will not put myself in a position for them to hurt me.
It's up to me to take care of myself. It is not H's responsibility.
