I noticed you use a lot of TRYs in your posts. Just do it (said the good people at NIKE) and DO or ON NOT, there is no TRY (said Yoda).
Please be aware that the neighbor approach is IMO the best way to go, it is a long term approach, so do not expect short term results, and it is FOR YOU and NOT FOR YOUR W, so do not keep looking over your shoulder if her behavior changes, the goal is for you to improve and build mental stamina and in time simply stop caring what your W is doing. And only then have you achieved a sufficient level of detachment... And let me tell you it is a blessing...
