Hanging on and hoping for the best

[j20a00g]

Anybody have any ideas on what to tell the kids when we sit down with them on Sunday? This is going to be so hard. These poor little guys don't deserve any of this crap. I can get past the pain I am dealing with but I'm not sure how I will react to seeing my boys go through it.

This was my biggest concern through all of this. We told them that mommy and daddy aren't getting along and need to take a time out. That none of it is their fault and that we both love them very much and they can still call either of us whenever they want and will stay with both of us."

Surprisingly, it was almost like "yea. We see the fighting. Finally a break". Since the separation, the kids seem almost like nothing happened. They haven't skipped a beat really and are doing great!