I love anna's response to you.

I am so sorry to hear of your mum's illness and the cancellation of your christmas plans.

I don't know what else I can offer you but my prayers and my virtual support.

(((Jelly)))

You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.