Your wh is still swinging. And my dear supersara, so are you.
You can see things clearer when your pendulum stops swinging. You dont have to wait for wh's pendulum to stop swinging; you can't make it stop.
But you know those infinity pendulum decorative thingies that you put on desks? If you put your pendulum beside wh's, both of your pendulums will always be swinging. You will be feeding off each other's negative energy.
Move your pendulum away. It will still swing. But not as badly as it will if it's still next to wh's.
I like how you're interacting calmly with wh. You dun need to guilt trip him. He's doing the job himself.
(((Sara))) You are a superhero, wobbles, backslides and all. Don't feel bad when you're being human, but learn and then do better next time.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.