where to begin or end?

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Well i replied with a simple "no" come home to some of the christmas stuff in the attic gone..
R1. She hasnt bothered to file and ive made it clear over n over im doing the work for her.
R2. Been working out, tucking shirt, cologne, occasionally dressing up, bought a new car.
R3. I regularly spend time at friends houses, try going out but difficult with my friend circle
R4. Ive been going with short upbeat polite responses when she does text.
So am i doing good? Cuz i feel like im failing at this.

I wish the kids werent subject to her poor example of how to handle all this. Last night i asked kids if they got a bath when with mom. "No, i dont know why mom doesnt really take care of us anymore" was my daughters response

How do i start/link new thread