Thanks Westo - we do have a property overseas that we have on the market...we can just take it off the market - problem solved! Thanks Sotto and Job for your input...H keeps sending texts and emails despite me having asked him to give me space and only to contact me if absolutely necessary. They are about non-important things such as 'what do the kids want for Christmas'...he has their phone numbers - why not ask them himself but he is still telling S26 that he wants a divorce talk in Jan with me...do I answer politely or tell him to please respect my space? xx