I don't have enough of an independent life. I've been thinking about it and I'm not even sure what I would do independently.
Sounds like it. Putting your entire life onto her has got to be draining. Think about that - if she werent there, you wouldnt even know what to do. Thats a pretty significant burden to put onto somebody, dont you think?
it's not that I disagree but the wife seems to like this state of affairs as much as I do. she has told me she likes to be together as often as possible over the years. If not for the coldness at night you would not even know anything was wrong at my house. we are still doing our daily routine together. neither I or my wife has expressed any interest in doing things apart. that is why I am confused about how to go forward from here.
