Tuesday S7 had his first basketball practice of the year. I am his head coach so that is going to keep me busy at least 3 days a week for a few months. S10 had a game at the same time. W went to watch S10. The next day my mom and sister both called me and said that W went out of her way to go to them at the game and gave them both big hugs. This was nice to hear because she has gone out of her way to avoid them during this whole thing.

Yesterday not much happened. The only thing that really sticks out is that she made her deposit and got her keys for her house. Not a shock but just a reminder that this separation is coming very soon.

We are going out to dinner and shopping tomorrow night. Sunday we tell the boys that W is moving out. I am dreading the conversation with the kids. S4 probably won't understand, S7 could go either way, S10 is very sensitive and aware there is something going on. I really worry about S10 but we do have a C session scheduled for him on Monday which should help.


Me:42 W:37
M:18 T:23
3S: 4,7,10
EA 6/16
ILYBNILWY 7/16
9/16 separate BR
10/16 Discernment Counseling
She's moving out 1/17