Thanks guys. As if to underline your points I received an email from W saying she was going to sell her car and as I have the bigger car could I pay her the difference. Fair enough but just another reminder she's gone. S was more sensible, he said it is just a car! True but another step towards future divorce and house sale once S leaves. I've got a lot to be grateful for but emotionally deep down my feelings haven't moved on. I wish they would and catch up with my rational mind which looks at all she has said and done and knows there is no future there.
