Ah. Yes that's makes things a bit difficult. You don't want to be controlling and punitive as sandi mentioned when it comes to finances.

Where is she sleeping? Perhaps nudging her out of the MB is a start? Treat it as an in home separation.


34, xw33
M-10, T-18
2D (8 and 5)
Ilybinilwy-1/16
EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend)
Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated)
W moved out-8/16
W Filed 11/21/16
D final 1/30/17