Altair, I took it right from the Divorce Remedy book.....I did a 180, removed myself from any conversation with her that she didn't start. I only spoke about me and I limited information on what I was doing. I asked her nothing and I mean nothing, about her, how she was doing, where she was, nothing! Every conversation I projected a positive image of myself, so that she could see that I was moving on.
I can tell you that her tone changed within a week and she began to text me or call me daily. I played this out all the way till tonight where she called me for the last time in 30 days...tomorrow we start NC. She wanted to know how my trip went, etc...I shared somethings, but not everything. She told me how happy she was for me and that she really sensed a change in me. She wasn't too energetic as she moved this week and got her period today....which she volunteered to me, since I never ask her anything about her. So we enter this period of silence with her starting to cycle and me moving ahead with my life at full steam. I left it on a high note...she said she would be rooting for me and I told her I rooting for her too We will see if any of this wakes her up. If not, I will be GAL in December and life will go on.
LRT for me worked great, as it led me to detachment as well. Let me know if you have anymore questions. Take care!
M52 W52 M17 T20 SS 23 from my 1st M Lives on his own BD 10/01/16 Trial Sep 12/01/16
