Bippy78, wow!! that does sound just like my situation. It's been going on for 2 months with the back and forth. Not sure if you read my previous posts but over the weekend I lost it and said we either both start giving 100% to fix this or finish getting your personnel items out of the house. She came and got her stuff and blames me for it... I wish I would have started all this when she first moved out. At that time, she just wanted space. I pursued and it pushed her further away. I guess I will know more if she files for D this week. It doesn't help with her living with her parents. She has a feel of security there vs. a empty home
