I think you are finally getting it. Anything that your h does for you and your daughter...be sure to acknowledge those gestures w/a thank you. He needs to know that his acts of kindness are being recognized and appreciated.
I believe your h is cooking up nicely. Don't rush the process. Allow him to come to you and whatever you do, keep your expectations very, very low.
Continue moving forward!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
