Thank you, Upside, for coming back to post such a positive update. I think many of us need to see the positive outcomes of DBing even after D. Even the positives that don't come from reuniting can make a difference, but especially given the original goal for finding this place, those who R. That we don't have to see the D as a reason to hate our X and mark the end of our journey.
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16
wow, what a story, well done on standing up for what you believe in and in having the strength to do what you have done.
What would be very interesting is to hear your husbands perspective on all this. I hope in time you may be able to share this with us.
Best wishes on the future
M 10, T 18 M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6 EA: Oct 12 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: Aug 15 Separated: Sep 15 Miss you: Jun 16 Aug 16: Dating (!) Oct 16: Selfishness returns... currently: disgusted
Many congratulations to you and your h, I am really happy for you both.
Thank you so much for posting an update, it meant that your previous posts were resurrected for us to read and for me you have given me a well needed boost at a time I really need it.
My h has just done a touch and go, he was away for 2 yrs, but in contact for the last yr, I thought he was done with his MLC, he said and did the right things and I was sucked in to his world way too easily. Reading your updates, I know I have to pick myself up and keep going on with my own life, leaving him to his, I can see that he is far away from coming through this, if he does at all.
Its lovely to hear of a reconciliation, so thanks for coming back to tell us all how you are doing.
