If contact sends you looping, go completely NC. Totally wholly.
The term I had in mind for me is STOVER that it is strongly totally over. It's my mindset.
It is my decision. There is the Giggalo and there is RIT (Russian Italian Tramp). They are a match made in purgatory. As long as he stays in Italy I am happy.
You have WW I your head because you haven't decided STOVER. You haven't chosen STOVER.
And who said soul searching and reflection are a bad thing? Nope they are part of STOVER. This M is dead and done, STOVER it. Decide that STOVER means freedom of all kinds.
Hanging on to the threads of a burnt cloth of your old M is having a comfort blanket. Let go, STOVER this M. WW is cake eating in my view. Truly she is. Even if all that's there are crumbs.
So what would it take to STOVER?
What would it feel like to be free from the old M?
What would new desires look and feel like for you?
As always you can say no V, I think though you are ready to shift.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
