No offense taken. Trying to understand what you mean. I think that the desire in the heart to be adulterous is there regardless. Just not sure keeping all of the triggers is really the way to prevent anything from happening and a blanket "all guys that hang with girls will cheat" type of thought is tough to swallow.


34, xw33
M-10, T-18
2D (8 and 5)
Ilybinilwy-1/16
EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend)
Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated)
W moved out-8/16
W Filed 11/21/16
D final 1/30/17