tell him you will murder him in his sleep if he pisses you off one more time.
Love it ^^^
I still think you ought to make him articulate in his own words what the hell ***he*** wants out of life. What's his vision. How's it all going to work.
What does *he* want to do as a parent? How much does he want to parent? How often does he want to be with them?
What does *he* want in a lover/partner? Does he want the feeling he had w/ the OW to last forever? Is it realistic? What will he do if that feeling fades w/ his next lover? Will he just move on to the next one, ad infinitum? Is that what he wants for himself?
He's making you choose for him. You've made it clear what you want. It's time for him to make it clear what he wants, and confront the realities of his immature desires.
-From the eye of my own hurricane
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final