I am glad the book resonates. It's an unusual stance and found it released me from the requirement to forgive and also to chunk it down.
I can let go of this, I can let go of that. I can see my role in the problem. It prevented me seeing forgiveness as all or nothing thing, a big chunk to chew on.
I no longer have guilt that I can't forgive, and am not ashamed of who I am. Plus I have no reasons to forgive that which isn't mine to forgive.
Complex I know.
It makes my life and my sitch so much easier.
If you can let go of the need to forgive all of it then I think it makes living so much easier.
Hugs
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW