What should I be doing now (Time to Move on?)

[Coconut]

Hi all,

I haven't been coming to the boards as much, as I find sometimes it triggers a little sadness in me to read the newbies stories, I find myself mentally going back to the beginning of my sitch.. I still come on occasionally and try and provide some support, but I keep my visits pretty short.

Anyway, I'm doing well, I have stopped the daily drinking, knowing it wasn't something I wanted to make a habit of.

I hope everyone was able to find some happiness over the holiday, I know it's a tough time of the year to be dealing with this stuff, but hopefully you were able to find time with friends and/or family that allowed you to enjoy the moment, even if the moment wasn't what you thought it would be.

In my case, my sons b-day was Monday, my wifes is this coming Monday and mine is the Monday after that.. it's always been a very very busy time of year, but a lot less so this year. I threw a b-day party for my son, we had a lot of fun. Don't think i'll be doing anything special for mine, probably just hang out with friends, maybe dinner with family, but that's all I want so it works for me.

I've stopped moving forward on filing for D. I have no intention of getting back with my ex, but the filing of the paperwork was really getting me down, so I put that on hold for now.