Of course I wasn't clear, come on, I stink at this! I shall try again. He isn't one to get the hint, or the direct message very well. Seriously, a nice guy despite his lewdness. maybe there is a woman who would appreciate that out there.
It's not you. It's the guys you are meeting. You are high quality. If my brothers were single i would set you up in a heart beat. I can only chalk it up to the region. Because seriously there is no other explanation.
You are smart and physically beautiful and emotionally mature. It's just hard finding someone that is of equal quality.
Hugs
J
JuJU, You have no idea how much this means to me. And I must say,that you would consider hooking me up with your brothers if they were single is a very high compliment!
I do think this region is not working for me. It sounds silly, especially when I'm so close to a city that his like a kazillion people in it...... but look at how unlucky those sex and the city women were, lol.
I actually have a friend of 10 years who recently moved down south. She is my age, never married, and honestly for as long as I have known her, has never had a boyfriend. She tried the OLD without much success. One of the biggest reasons for moving was to find someone to marry.
Lord knows if I could get out of dodge and start somewhere new, I wouldn't hesitate.
Um, I'm not sure I get this...if you were out dating frequently and found you were dating losers then I might get this conclusion but you're not! You had a long distance relationship with a man out of state and dated the plumber, who you didn't think would work out from the beginning but gave it a shot anyway. Don't limit yourself by painting all men in your area with a wide brush...hey, isn't Bruce Springsteen available lol. Dating suucks...believe me, I get it but it's all we've got unless you want to do the turtle thing...and yes, you've got so much to offer some lucky guy!
Actually, a few weeks ago, or maybe a month or two ago, I was texting with my sons and they were complaining about mommy (my xW). I don't really remember the conversation, but one of us referred to her as a Hairy Green Monster. It was all in good fun. The boys know that mommy is different now (always angry) and we were all letting off steam with a little humor.
Around the same time (I think) one of us referred to her as a Nazi while texting. I think it was my youngest son that said that; he's a big World War II history buff. He also calls his older brother a "grammar Nazi" so he obviously isn't using the word literally.
Anyway, last week I got a letter from my wife's lawyer threatening going to court because we'd called my xW a Hairy Green Monster and a Nazi. I laughed until I cried. I can't imagine any sane judge giving two sh*ts about that.
So, being the good doodler that I am, I sent my xW a message via OurFamilyWizard that started with "Dear Hairy Green Monster..."
Did your kids go back and tell her they called her that?!
I think it's funny, and I think she wasted her money on her lawyer for that, but I'd hate to see something actually happen because of "bad-mouthing the other parent" like taking some dumb parenting class.
Tell your boys that that stuff stays between you guys, since you know it is all in good fun, but Mommy has lost her sense of humor!"
Lord knows if I could get out of dodge and start somewhere new, I wouldn't hesitate.
Northern Florida is definitely the best place for dating and stuff. Ponce de Leon actually found the Fountain of Youth here, he just didn't tell anybody. There are four seasons and the leaves change color, but it's rarely brutally cold.
