Sandi - I've been working on true detachment and continue to struggle with her ambivalence. She's enjoying the material benefits of married life but not working on the marriage. Is this a futile path or should I work at it longer? It could be looked at as a negative that we are not separated so it doesn't hurt enough for her. Should I initiate that to establish my boundary that not working on things is not ok? Thank you.
- m and ww in 30s - s4 - m 11 yrs, t12 -ilybinilwy ~5/16 + request for OM - bd 7/16, confirm ea and strongly suspected pa - 9/16 ww claimed to have broken contact with om
