I don't want to be plan b. I hate the thought of that, of my W sleeping with OW while W asks me for more time. Wth!!! I'm worth a heck of a lot more than that.
cheesyt,
I know exactly what you mean. I became a lighthouse; I was strong, confident and self sufficient. But that didn't last terribly long. As my own LBS fog began to clear, I began to clearly see how much bad behavior I'd willingly tolerated and I slowly began to realize that my WW would probably never become a person that I could respect enough to have as a wife. It's a hard pill to swallow, but I know it's true.
Cadet said that it's a common script; the LBS becomes the WAS.