I don't know if this is relevant but I am including it in case that it is. I have been taking care of all of our needs since day 1 of our relationship. I do not have any regrets about this and it has never seemed like a bad thing to me.
w does not drive by choice, I do all the driving w only worked a regular job briefly when I met her w is an accomplished artist but the earnings on her best year were about $4000. currently she is earning almost nothing w takes good care of our kids (I consider this a full time job and I am glad that she does it) I cook all our dinners and usually clean up after I do most of the cleaning I spend time with kids every day I pretty much don't do anything separate for myself except for 2 times a week judo workout but even this I do together with oldest son.
This situation has never bothered me until we stopped having sex all the time. Now I think about it.
Do I do too much? Is it possible to do to much?
If I pull back, is it right to use all of this leverage I have? Won't that just push her further away.
