I agree that each of us needs to own up to our faults and responsibilities. But you also have to think about whether you are taking on too much, to an unhealthy degree, i.e., you are "enabling" another person's unhealthy habit.
So that gets me back to my real questions at the moment. Should I pull away? Should I confront her about her flirting? Or should I just cruise along as-is and hope that everything will be ok?
Currently, it feels like we are slowly disintegrating so I figure I need to change something.
