I unfortunately dont have such encouraging words to the effect of Surfers. Im more likely to encourage you to tell him you will murder him in his sleep if he pisses you off one more time.
Show a little teeth under the supermom/wife.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.