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Quick response via cell sorry if typos: she could be dehydrated ... Give her water with a little bit of salt - a pinch only

And listen to Job


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Also you might want to consider Gatorade or Propel to help replenish those electrolytes. I hope she's feeling better soon!


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Great idea for the dehydration

I actually got a message from her. My jeep is a one of a kind in my area , the way it's set up. XW saw it in the Parking lot. She messaged me asking if all was ok

I said it was D14 not well. All the symptoms. Blurred vision, pale, fainting, nausea, problems breathing. It got worse.

She messaged me back a formal.
Ok, let me know.

That was this morning. I got the text back to go to the clinic and no news from XW . I guess she's not as worried as I am.

I'll focus on my D14. Won't update XW unless she asks.


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ok let us know how your daughter is doing please xoxoxo sending prayers and {{{hugs}}}


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Hi Bttrfly
She is soin better but a lot of test to be done.
I messaged XW because the clinic needed family history.
It made me realize I had no clue of her family medical history except for the mental illness on her mother side

so the doctors want to do blood work, an MRI and for her to see a neurologist.

I tell this to XW.

Her reply 2 words.

Ok thanks ...

So I gave her number to the clinic so they can ask her the questions themselves.

I'm sure my D14 is fine but I am making it my priority to make sure she is.

Have a great day eveyone. Love your kids because things happen so fast.


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Keep us posted. Sending you massive {{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}

Keep the focus on yourself and your girls. Expect nothing. She's not able right now to give anything to herself, let alone anyone else. Very good idea to have clinic call her directly. As hard as it is, try to remember that it's MLC ... stay strong xoxoxoxoxo


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How is your daughter today? I'm keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers and hope that your D just as a "bug".


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Hi Job and Bttrfly
Hugs to you both for asking about my D14

D14 is a lot better. During her blood tests though she had an episode right away.
Tunnel vision, nearly fainted then nausea.

The nurse told me she might be suffering from anxiety.

All in all she had a good day.

Bttrfly. You are so right. XW is not herself, not rational and not able to care for herself let alone others. That you so much for this reminder. When I read it my frustration towards XW vanished.

I so needed to be reminded that XW is not well. Xox

Irish


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I'm glad I could help. they took blood tests right? She may also be B12 deficient .... paleness, vision issues, dizziness ... all symptoms.

I'm glad she had a good day.

How are you doing?

I know what you mean and I constantly have to remind myself that my stbxh isn't well or the frustration of dealing with him gets to me.

Hope you all have a quiet, peaceful evening.

How was the wine tasting? What did you end up wearing?

xoxoxoxo {{{{{hugs}}}}}}


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Hi Irish. I hope your daughter is OK. Yes, anxiety can cause these symptoms. I hope there is nothing more serious. It looks like your W's sympathy ship is still broken...
(((((hugs))))))


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