No Rules

[DonH]

I'm going to have to disagree with whatitis - well at least in part. IF and I have to really be clear that IF you clearly told him you don't want to see him anymore and he's not respecting that, then I'd agree with WII. Thing is, I'm very willing to bet you were not clear. You've admitted you want to be nice, not hurt him , etc and I just bet that turned into a very non-comitle breakup. Some guys, actually most (myself included) need things in very clear terms. Not subtle, sweat, sugar coated double meanings. So you Have to be clear, no hedging no "I'm not sure if this is working" type language.

I fully agree we'd rather know. It's far nicer than stringing along. The sad thing here is, I'm told by many women that guys don't take it well which is part of why they don't come clean right away. Rather than a decent response they get mean or nasty or ask why or try to convince or whatever. This is why many online do what they do or don't respond at all after getting some very nasty responses.

Be clear, be firm and be final. Say goodbye and good luck or whatever. If he doesn't. Get it from That, it's on him.

Lol and remember when you first went out and he said you are different than anyone else he's ever dated? You thought that was the beginning of the end and he would dump you. Guess that didn't happen! .